Hedonisia is an eco-feminist community. However, despite our focus on female empowerment and equality, we noticed that many women who arrive here are often a little afraid of nature!
Urban females can sometimes freak out if they see a spider or other ‘creepy crawlies’! They will shudder if they hear a strange sound and treat the jungle like it’s a horror movie.
We are not being gender-specific! However, we describe a real issue; the fact that many urban dwellers of any gender, are challenged by living harmoniously in nature.
We help you rediscover your inner Jane or Tarzan to be a ‘Jungle Queen’ or ‘King of the Jungle’ rather than a complaining ‘Prissy Prince(ss)’! It is more empowering feeling for women rather than feeling dependent on a man to protect them from nature!
With tongue firmly in cheek, here are some of the main differences:
Empowered Jungle Queen or King
|• Does not appreciate the work we are doing. Only sees we are not like a ‘normal’ hotel. And then complains accordingly.|
• Comes to a rain forest located in the rainforest and then complains about the rain!
• Complains to anyone and everyone to make ‘allies’ for their ’cause’ creating negativity for the entire community.
• Did not read the website thoroughly to understand the program, community, surroundings, transport, etc.
• Instead blames us for not being the fantasy community that they created in their head.
• Wants to sanitize, bleach, and kill all the germs and mold in the jungle.
• Sees an insect or hears a jungle sound and ‘freaks out’!.
• Wants everything to be exact and predictable.
|Ψ Sees the ‘big picture’ and appreciates that it took a lot of work to get this community to the place it is at.|
Ψ Finds it challenging and rewarding to ‘work in the land’ and is okay with a little dirt and mud.
Ψ Knows that a woman can be strong and still feminine
Ψ Feels empowered in nature when she does not feel that she needs a man to ‘scare away the spiders’.
Ψ Willing to work on solutions rather than just being a complainer.
Ψ Proud of the scratches that come from living in the rainforest.
Ψ Understands that living in a rain forest in a lava zone requires flexibility and adaptability and ENJOYS a little unpredictability.
Ψ Wants to learn and grow physically, emotionally and intellectually. Appreciates the rain forest as a great place to do so!
We try our best to accommodate the sensitivities of all of our visitors. However, it only takes one complaining prince(ss) to bring down the energy of everyone in the community!
It’s totally fine to come to Hedonisia as a Prissy Princess! We understand that many women (and men!) in our community have delicate sensibilities. Many have known only soft urban living.
However, even the most urban ‘prissy princess’ female can adapt to rainforest living if they arrive with an open mind!
Life begins outside of your comfort zone! You’re a lot less fragile than you think! We hope to inspire you to be a Jungle Queen!
As part of their Heart work, many women have created inspirational murals on the property depicting strong warrior jungle queens!
Hedonisia Community Jungle Queen Alumni!
Here is a small fraction of women who for the most part, have never lived in a jungle but who adapted well to their rain forest home at Hedonisia up to when the volcano hit our property in May.
We only list 3 Jungle Queens per year! So please don’t be offended if you are not listed!
Kate – Anchor Intern